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Choice: investing in it and looking the other way
By Dr Olayiwola Ajileye
Many times we are faced with choices in life, usually at important crossroads where major decisions needs to be
taken. I don’t know why this idea come to me but, it must be that, there is need for someone somewhere to review
and reappraise what choices we make and not make as we journey along this terrain of human endeavours. By
definition, choice is an act of choosing with care from a variety of options. It is often difficult making a choice in such
situations between two, three or four competing options. However, it’s only a choice, which we consider the very best
amongst equals that has to be made…the preferred choice.
The question then is what happens to the other options? How do we relate with the choice made? Many are able to
stand by their choice and move on, but many are often in turmoil about the strategic advantage of the choice they have
made, and lose a lot of sleep worrying about those options they have left behind. More often, there are those who,
when faced with such situations, would not be able to make up their minds and decides on what choice is most
preferable, and they simply, in that state of indecision, walk away from all the options available before them.
But in reviewing life itself, one can conclude that what we do, how we do it and when we do it is all about the choices
we have made at different times. Hence, we see different outcomes in many of us as a result of the diversity of choices
we have made at various times in life. Whatever choice one makes today may be inextricably link to what we become,
or what become of us in the years to come. Therefore, the process of choice making is one that cannot be taken with
levity and unenthusiastic consideration. It may determine which direction the rest of one’s life may go. It is hence, not
really a game of chance, but a calculated painstaking exercise.
But when such choice would have been made, what happens to the ones left unchosen? It may help to look away, the
economist would look at it from the point of view of forgotten alternative, the opportunity cost, but ordinary people
would simply conclude that, what would be would be, life goes on!
But looking the other way may have either good or bad consequences. Borrowing from the Obama’s family story…
“When Obama was a toddler, his father had declined a scholarship to New York University that would have
supported the whole family in order to go to Harvard. The Ivy League was, it seems, more important to the ambitious
Obama Sr. than his wife and child. Deprived of a father's love, Obama chose to build his own universe; an invisible
centre where the failings and flightiness of others could do him the least harm, Obama was left with two alternatives:
either descends into chaos as a lost soul or steel himself against the world in order to rise in it. He chose steeliness
over surrender”
Obama’s Sr choice to look the other way is central to the way their both lives played out with two diverse outcomes.
However, sometimes, in order to make your choice work well for you, you may need to look the other way to the
options left unchosen and focus on what you have chosen, invest in it, work with it, walk in it and nurture it to justify
your choice. That could make the difference between a good choice and a bad choice. Again, today, Obama is a
shining example of that simple ideology. However, in situations where it resulted in strategically unwholesome choice,
then it becomes a lesson in life which if positively appraised, may become an asset in the act of choice making and
lessons of life.
Personally, after my O’level, I choose to do an A’ level course to enhance my skill and understanding in basic
sciences and improve my chances of gaining admission to study medicine in the University. I had other choices which I
left unchosen. Many of my contemporaries choose to proceed direct to other institutions of higher learning. At the
time, I would not consider my choice to be the best options amongst the competing variables, but I invested in the
choice I made in order to accomplish my personal ambition. The rest is history. In the same vein, Obama chose to
embrace community service over and above corporate legal career. “Obama went to college at Occidental, in Los
Angeles, for two years before moving east to Columbia University. He worked in Chicago as a community organizer
before applying to Harvard Law School - echoes of his father's earlier journey—and rising to become President of the
Harvard Law Review. Shortly after the Law Review election, David Wilkins, one of his Professors, told him that he
would be happy to talk about which Supreme Court Justice Obama would like to clerk for. "He said to me,
'Professor Wilkins, thank you, but I'm not very interested'," Wilkins remembers. "And he said something like, 'I'm
going to use these 15 minutes of fame to get a book contract' … and then he said, 'I'm going to go back to Chicago,
continue the work I was doing beforehand, and then I want to run for elected office'." The rest again is history.
This is just one example in life, where choice making is crucial to personal achievement. There are times in choosing
who to marry, whether it is really expedient to marry at all, and controversially, which country in the world should one
settle in to live (Nigeria, USA, UK or Australia). The point is that choice has to be made, but for whatever choice one
has made, give it your best shot, it may end up being the obvious demarcation between success and failure.
Dr Olayiwola Ajileye writes from Birmingham, United Kingdom
By Dr Olayiwola Ajileye
Many times we are faced with choices in life, usually at important crossroads where major decisions needs to be
taken. I don’t know why this idea come to me but, it must be that, there is need for someone somewhere to review
and reappraise what choices we make and not make as we journey along this terrain of human endeavours. By
definition, choice is an act of choosing with care from a variety of options. It is often difficult making a choice in such
situations between two, three or four competing options. However, it’s only a choice, which we consider the very best
amongst equals that has to be made…the preferred choice.
The question then is what happens to the other options? How do we relate with the choice made? Many are able to
stand by their choice and move on, but many are often in turmoil about the strategic advantage of the choice they have
made, and lose a lot of sleep worrying about those options they have left behind. More often, there are those who,
when faced with such situations, would not be able to make up their minds and decides on what choice is most
preferable, and they simply, in that state of indecision, walk away from all the options available before them.
But in reviewing life itself, one can conclude that what we do, how we do it and when we do it is all about the choices
we have made at different times. Hence, we see different outcomes in many of us as a result of the diversity of choices
we have made at various times in life. Whatever choice one makes today may be inextricably link to what we become,
or what become of us in the years to come. Therefore, the process of choice making is one that cannot be taken with
levity and unenthusiastic consideration. It may determine which direction the rest of one’s life may go. It is hence, not
really a game of chance, but a calculated painstaking exercise.
But when such choice would have been made, what happens to the ones left unchosen? It may help to look away, the
economist would look at it from the point of view of forgotten alternative, the opportunity cost, but ordinary people
would simply conclude that, what would be would be, life goes on!
But looking the other way may have either good or bad consequences. Borrowing from the Obama’s family story…
“When Obama was a toddler, his father had declined a scholarship to New York University that would have
supported the whole family in order to go to Harvard. The Ivy League was, it seems, more important to the ambitious
Obama Sr. than his wife and child. Deprived of a father's love, Obama chose to build his own universe; an invisible
centre where the failings and flightiness of others could do him the least harm, Obama was left with two alternatives:
either descends into chaos as a lost soul or steel himself against the world in order to rise in it. He chose steeliness
over surrender”
Obama’s Sr choice to look the other way is central to the way their both lives played out with two diverse outcomes.
However, sometimes, in order to make your choice work well for you, you may need to look the other way to the
options left unchosen and focus on what you have chosen, invest in it, work with it, walk in it and nurture it to justify
your choice. That could make the difference between a good choice and a bad choice. Again, today, Obama is a
shining example of that simple ideology. However, in situations where it resulted in strategically unwholesome choice,
then it becomes a lesson in life which if positively appraised, may become an asset in the act of choice making and
lessons of life.
Personally, after my O’level, I choose to do an A’ level course to enhance my skill and understanding in basic
sciences and improve my chances of gaining admission to study medicine in the University. I had other choices which I
left unchosen. Many of my contemporaries choose to proceed direct to other institutions of higher learning. At the
time, I would not consider my choice to be the best options amongst the competing variables, but I invested in the
choice I made in order to accomplish my personal ambition. The rest is history. In the same vein, Obama chose to
embrace community service over and above corporate legal career. “Obama went to college at Occidental, in Los
Angeles, for two years before moving east to Columbia University. He worked in Chicago as a community organizer
before applying to Harvard Law School - echoes of his father's earlier journey—and rising to become President of the
Harvard Law Review. Shortly after the Law Review election, David Wilkins, one of his Professors, told him that he
would be happy to talk about which Supreme Court Justice Obama would like to clerk for. "He said to me,
'Professor Wilkins, thank you, but I'm not very interested'," Wilkins remembers. "And he said something like, 'I'm
going to use these 15 minutes of fame to get a book contract' … and then he said, 'I'm going to go back to Chicago,
continue the work I was doing beforehand, and then I want to run for elected office'." The rest again is history.
This is just one example in life, where choice making is crucial to personal achievement. There are times in choosing
who to marry, whether it is really expedient to marry at all, and controversially, which country in the world should one
settle in to live (Nigeria, USA, UK or Australia). The point is that choice has to be made, but for whatever choice one
has made, give it your best shot, it may end up being the obvious demarcation between success and failure.
Dr Olayiwola Ajileye writes from Birmingham, United Kingdom